Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Normalcy returns

The holidays have come and gone and with it a dozen family members from the East coast. It was a great holiday season and one I am so grateful to have been able to spend with mom. Christmas week took a toll on her as it required a bit more energy, both physical and emotional, than usual. She's now had a chance to catch up on some much needed rest. Jake said that over the weekend she had great energy levels and was in very high spirits. Apparently she even skipped her nap (this is huge).
Incredibly mom has increased her two days a week at work from five hours to eight. This is amazing.
So an update in a nutshell...
Mom has pancreatic cancer.
Prognosis not good.
Mom has radiation and one lousy stay at Stanford.
Mom has a bunch of chemo.
Mom handles chemo very well.
Mom goes back to work a few hours a day twice a week.
Mom loses a healthy amount of weight and looks better than I can ever remember.
Family comes to town and lifts spirits.
Mom has check up.
Results are phenomenal with no metastasis and a reduction of cancer cells.
Mom is ordered to undergo three more months of chemo (because it's working).
Mom increases work hours (at a job she loves) to eight hours twice a week.

So, would you say things are going well or bad?
What we are witnessing here is nothing short of a miracle in the making.
She is kicking this things ass!
Keep it up mom, there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Thursday, January 8, 2009

Going to California

At last Christmas came and with it twelve family members from mom's side from the East coast. On Christmas day they left freezing temps and snow and arrived to see the last of a mild California storm. They got to see big waves and dramatic skies. After that, the skies cleared and the rest of the week was some of the nicest weather I've seen in a while.

We (17 of us) had a house rented on La Selva Beach, near Aptos, for a week. Christmas Day through New Years Day. The food and drink were good and the company even better. My family doesn't see that side of the family more than once a year or so. It was a great chance to slow down and really spend some time with each other. The house was located such that it really forced you to relax. There were only a few things to do in the immediate area, and none of them sucked. Options such as walking the beach, taking a soak in the hot tub (on the deck with a view of the beach), catching up on a book, or just sitting enjoying a cold one were the fare of the week. It was perfect.
There were a few day trips to local spots. Some went to Monterey (there was an aquarium trip of course) and some to Santa Cruz and Capitola (Gabigola as it became know). Nancy Ann organized an on the beach horse back riding trip at Molera Beach.All in all it was an amazing week and it came to a close way too quick. I think mom had a great time. Tired at times, she really hung in there. I know she cherished the chance to catch up with her sister, brother, and nieces and nephews.
A great start to what is sure to be a much better year than the last.